Perfect mate!!

Is there such thing perfect man?  My opinion there is for everyone but the standards might not be the same. I've been thinking of my perfect man today and it ended up more like a best friend. I myself like men that I can laugh and joke with, they except me for who I am and expect nothing more. I feel the same way about them, I like guys that enjoy the same things I do but both of us willing to experience the others likes. Someone who you are not afraid to tell your deepest darkest secrets with. The kind of guy that if you got arrested would be setting in the cell with you saying well damn that was fun while it lasted. Someone who doesn't take life to seriously. but have borders. Not afraid to dance in the rain or look silly swinging at a park and sometimes just acting like kids . We have to be grown up all the time everyone needs to go back to their carefree childhood every now and then. What is some of your ideas of perfect a mate?

Let's see were this goes

I have never blogged before so I figured I'd give it a try hope you will enjoy reading about my crazy life. Any input would be great also. So anyway I'm about to be 32 years old Monday. It's awesome because I never thought I would see 30. The truth is I became a crack addict at the age of 25, I had a small daughter at the time and the rug just took over. Not trying to justify  any of  this self destructing behavior but I did enough sense to leave her with my mother were she was safe. I never wanted her to see me high so I would stay gone weeks at a time. The details of those three years are yet to come . I have been clean for 2 years I have a son who is 4 now and my daughter is 14. I'm a single mom with no help from their fathers but we are survivors. I hope my story and life might help to change a few lives and give you  few laughs along the way. So let me know what you would like to hear more about.